Allistics: use ur words!!!1!
Autistic person: that thing that you are doing/sound that you are making/etc is causing me a lot of pain right now please can you stop
Allistics: what??? No u just need to suck it up this doesn't bother normal people stop whining so much
Autistic person: *attempts to suck it up*
Allistics: omg what is wrong with you I can tell you're extremely uncomfortable but instead of considering that you could be in pain I'm going to assume that you're just angry and aggressive, if it makes u so *angry* just leave the room gosh
Autistic person: *attempts to leave*
Allistics: what are you storming off for, what is your problem??? Why can't you just be pleasant and polite about leaving even though you're in a lot of pain and very overwhelmed and adhering to our arbitrary standard of what it means to be "pleasant" takes a lot of energy for you as it is
Allistics: autistic ppl have no empathy lol